Politely Declining a Drink or Food Offering

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Politely Declining Drink or Food

How to say no gracefully — without awkwardness or offense.

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Iru Helper Note

In Korean social culture, declining food or drink requires care. A flat refusal can feel abrupt. Use softening phrases and give a light reason — this keeps the relationship warm.

괜찮아요, 저는 됐어요. 오늘은 사양할게요.

(It's okay, I'm fine. I'll pass today.)

🍶 What You'll Learn Today

In this lesson, you'll learn how to politely decline food or drink in Korean social settings — at a meal, a company dinner, a friend's home, or anywhere you're offered something you don't want or can't have. You'll learn how to say no gracefully without offending, and how to soften your refusal with natural Korean phrases.

📌 Politely Declining Food or Drink — Key Expressions

Expression	Meaning	Notes
괜찮아요	I'm fine / It's okay (decline)	Most common, gentle decline
저는 됐어요	I'm good / I'll pass	Casual but polite
사양할게요	I'll pass / I'll decline	More formal; respectful refusal
충분히 먹었어요	I've had enough	Explains fullness without being rude
배가 불러요	I'm full	Simple reason for declining food
저는 술을 못 마셔요	I can't drink alcohol	Stating inability; polite
운전이 있어요	I'm driving (excuse for no alcohol)	Very common excuse in Korea
건강상의 이유로요	For health reasons	Polite all-purpose reason
오늘은 패스할게요	I'll pass today	Casual; implies another time is possible
조금만 주세요	Just a little please	When you don't want to fully decline
다음엔 꼭 먹을게요	I'll definitely have it next time	Softens the decline
음식이 너무 맛있어 보여요, 근데...	The food looks delicious, but...	Compliment before declining
알레르기가 있어요	I have allergies	Specific, accepted reason
채식주의자예요	I'm vegetarian	Dietary explanation

💡 Key pattern: [compliment or acknowledgement] + [soft decline] + [brief reason or future openness] — e.g., 맛있어 보여요, 근데 저는 됐어요. 배가 좀 불러서요.

💬 Conversations in Action

Dialogue 1 — Declining alcohol at a dinner

A: 한 잔 더 드실래요? (Would you like another glass?)

B: 아, 괜찮아요. 저는 됐어요. 오늘 운전이 있어서요. (Oh, it's okay. I'm good. I'm driving today.)

A: 아, 그렇군요. 그럼 음료수 드릴게요. (Oh, I see. Then I'll get you a soft drink.)

Dialogue 2 — Declining more food

A: 더 드세요! 많이 있어요. (Have more! There's plenty.)

B: 너무 맛있어요, 근데 충분히 먹었어요. 배가 불러요. (It's so delicious, but I've had enough. I'm full.)

A: 그래요? 아쉽다. 다음에 또 오세요. (Really? What a shame. Come again next time.)

🌏 Cultural Note — Refusing Food in Korea

In Korean culture, especially at a 회식 (company dinner) or a host's home, food and drink are often offered repeatedly — and the first refusal may not be taken at face value. A polite decline might be met with another offer: 그래도 조금만요! Giving a specific reason — 운전이 있어요, 건강상의 이유로요, 배가 너무 불러요 — helps the other person accept your refusal more naturally. Following a decline with 다음엔 꼭 먹을게요 shows appreciation and keeps the warmth in the interaction.

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Practice declining food or drink politely in different situations.

A. Politely decline a second drink with a simple expression.

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괜찮아요, 저는 됐어요.

(It's okay, I'm good.)

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B. Decline alcohol by saying you're driving.

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저는 오늘 운전이 있어서 사양할게요.

(I'll pass because I'm driving today.)

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C. Say you're full and have had enough.

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배가 불러요. 충분히 먹었어요.

(I'm full. I've had enough.)

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D. Compliment the food before declining more.

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너무 맛있어요, 근데 저는 됐어요.

(It's so delicious, but I'm good.)

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E. Decline with a health reason.

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건강상의 이유로 사양할게요.

(I'll pass for health reasons.)

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F. Say you'll definitely have it next time.

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다음엔 꼭 먹을게요!

(I'll definitely have it next time!)

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G. Ask for just a little instead of declining fully.

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조금만 주세요.

(Just a little please.)

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H. Decline casually and say you'll pass today.

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오늘은 패스할게요.

(I'll pass today.)

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I. Decline food by mentioning an allergy.

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저 이거 알레르기가 있어서요. 죄송해요.

(I have an allergy to this. I'm sorry.)

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J. Decline as a vegetarian politely.

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저는 채식주의자라서 고기는 못 먹어요. 죄송해요.

(I'm vegetarian so I can't eat meat. I'm sorry.)

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Expression Reference

Expression	Nuance/Key
괜찮아요	Gentle decline
저는 됐어요	I'm good/I'll pass
사양할게요	Formal decline
충분히 먹었어요	I've had enough
배가 불러요	I'm full
운전이 있어요	Driving (alcohol excuse)
다음엔 꼭 먹을게요	Softens the decline
조금만 주세요	Just a little

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Speaking Tip

The most natural decline structure: [soft expression] + [brief reason]. 괜찮아요, 오늘 운전이 있어서요. 됐어요, 배가 좀 불러서요. Keep the reason brief — Koreans understand and appreciate a light reason without a long explanation.

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Want more reps?

Practice three different scenarios: declining alcohol at a dinner, declining more food at a friend's home, and declining a snack at an office. Use a different expression each time.

📦 Practice Hub — Politely Declining Drink or Food

Exercise 1 — Choose the Right Expression

A. Someone offers you more food and you want to decline gently.

a) 더 주세요

b) 괜찮아요, 저는 됐어요

c) 맛없어요

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b) 괜찮아요, 저는 됐어요 — Gentle and natural decline.

B. You're declining alcohol because you have to drive.

a) 술이 싫어요

b) 저는 오늘 운전이 있어서요

c) 내일 마실게요

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b) 저는 오늘 운전이 있어서요 — The most socially accepted excuse for not drinking.

C. You want to say you've had enough food.

a) 더 먹고 싶어요

b) 충분히 먹었어요

c) 아직 배가 고파요

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b) 충분히 먹었어요 — "I've had enough" — polite and clear.

D. You want to use the more formal word for declining.

a) 됐어요

b) 사양할게요

c) 안 먹어요

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b) 사양할게요 — More formal way to say "I'll pass / I'll decline."

E. You want to soften your refusal by promising to have it next time.

a) 다음엔 안 와요

b) 다음엔 꼭 먹을게요

c) 맛이 없어서요

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b) 다음엔 꼭 먹을게요 — Softens the decline; shows appreciation.

F. You don't want to fully decline — you just want a small amount.

a) 많이 주세요

b) 조금만 주세요

c) 됐어요

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b) 조금만 주세요 — "Just a little please" — partial acceptance.

G. You want to decline today specifically, implying openness another time.

a) 오늘은 패스할게요

b) 절대 안 먹어요

c) 맛없어 보여요

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a) 오늘은 패스할게요 — "I'll pass today" — soft, situational decline.

H. You want to decline for health reasons.

a) 다이어트 중이에요 (dieting)

b) 건강상의 이유로요

c) 배가 고파요

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b) 건강상의 이유로요 — "For health reasons" — polite all-purpose reason.

I. You want to compliment the food before declining.

a) 별로예요, 근데...

b) 너무 맛있어 보여요, 근데...

c) 안 먹어서 몰라요

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b) 너무 맛있어 보여요, 근데... — Acknowledge the offer warmly before declining.

J. You need to decline meat because you're vegetarian.

a) 고기 싫어요

b) 채식주의자라서 고기는 못 먹어요

c) 안 먹을 거예요

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b) 채식주의자라서 고기는 못 먹어요 — Polite dietary explanation.

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Quick Reference

Expression	Meaning
괜찮아요	I'm fine (decline)
저는 됐어요	I'm good / I'll pass
사양할게요	I'll decline (formal)
충분히 먹었어요	I've had enough
배가 불러요	I'm full
운전이 있어요	I'm driving
조금만 주세요	Just a little
오늘은 패스할게요	I'll pass today
다음엔 꼭 먹을게요	Definitely next time

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Nuance Warning

Saying 안 먹어요 (I don't eat it) or 싫어요 (I don't like it) without softening sounds blunt and can come across as ungrateful. Always soften with 괜찮아요 or 됐어요 first, then give a brief reason. The reason is what makes it socially smooth.

Exercise 2 — Korean → English Translation

A. 아, 괜찮아요. 저는 됐어요. 배가 불러서요.

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Oh, it's okay. I'm good. I'm full.

B. 너무 맛있어 보여요, 근데 오늘은 패스할게요.

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It looks so delicious, but I'll pass today.

C. 저는 술을 못 마셔요. 건강상의 이유로요.

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I can't drink alcohol. For health reasons.

D. 충분히 먹었어요. 다음엔 꼭 더 먹을게요!

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I've had enough. I'll definitely eat more next time!

E. 조금만 주세요. 양이 많아서요.

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Just a little please. The portion is big.

F. 오늘 운전이 있어서 사양할게요. 죄송해요.

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I'll pass because I'm driving today. I'm sorry.

G. 채식주의자라서 고기는 못 먹어요. 다른 건 다 맛있어요!

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I'm vegetarian so I can't eat meat. Everything else is delicious!

H. 이거 알레르기가 있어서요. 죄송해요. 다른 건 잘 먹을게요.

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I have an allergy to this. I'm sorry. I'll have the other things.

I. 배가 너무 불러요. 이렇게 맛있는 걸 못 먹어서 아쉬워요.

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I'm so full. It's a shame I can't eat something this delicious.

J. 술은 됐어요. 음료수 있으면 그걸로 할게요.

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I'll pass on alcohol. If there's a soft drink I'll have that.

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Vocabulary Cheat Sheet

Korean	English
양이 많다	The portion is big
다른 건	The other things
아쉽다	It's a shame
음료수	Soft drink
~이/가 있으면	If there is ~
다	All / everything

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Translation Tip

아쉽다 is used to express a mild sense of regret or disappointment — "it's a shame" or "what a pity." When you say 못 먹어서 아쉬워요 after declining food, it tells the host you genuinely wanted to try it, which is very considerate and well-received in Korean social settings.

Exercise 3 — Complete the Sentence

A. 괜찮아요, 저는 어요. (I'm good / I'll pass)

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됐 — 저는 됐어요.

B. 배가 어요. 충분히 먹었어요. (full)

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불러 — 배가 불러요.

C. 오늘 이 있어서요. (driving)

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운전 — 오늘 운전이 있어서요.

D. 상의 이유로 사양할게요. (health)

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건강 — 건강상의 이유로 사양할게요.

E. 다음엔 꼭 을게요. (eat/have)

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먹 — 다음엔 꼭 먹을게요.

F. 만 주세요. (just a little)

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조금 — 조금만 주세요.

G. 오늘은 할게요. (pass)

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패스 — 오늘은 패스할게요.

H. 저 이거 가 있어서요. (allergy)

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알레르기 — 알레르기가 있어서요.

I. 채식라서 고기는 못 먹어요. (vegetarian)

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주의자 — 채식주의자라서요.

J. 너무 맛있어 요, 근데... (looks delicious)

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보여 — 너무 맛있어 보여요, 근데...

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Sentence Starters

Starter	Continues With
괜찮아요, 저는 됐어요	• brief reason
너무 맛있어 보여요, 근데	• soft decline
오늘은 패스할게요	(situational decline)
다음엔 꼭 먹을게요	(close warmly)
조금만 주세요	(partial acceptance)

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Production Tip

Two-part structure: decline + reason. The reason doesn't need to be long — just one brief clause. 됐어요, 배가 불러서요. 사양할게요, 운전이 있어서요. Short reason = natural. Long explanation = can feel like you're over-justifying.

Exercise 4 — Dialogue Completion

A. A: 한 잔 더 드실래요? B: (decline with a driving excuse)

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아, 괜찮아요. 오늘 운전이 있어서 사양할게요.

(Oh, it's okay. I'll pass because I'm driving today.)

B. A: 더 드세요! 많이 있어요. B: (compliment then decline)

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너무 맛있어요, 근데 배가 불러요. 충분히 먹었어요.

(It's so delicious, but I'm full. I've had enough.)

C. A: 이거 한번 드셔봐요. B: (ask what's in it before deciding)

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혹시 뭐가 들어가 있어요? 저 알레르기가 좀 있어서요.

(What's in it by any chance? I have some allergies.)

D. A: 고기도 드세요! B: (decline as a vegetarian)

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저는 채식주의자라서 고기는 못 먹어요. 다른 건 다 잘 먹을게요!

(I'm vegetarian so I can't eat meat. I'll have everything else!)

E. A: 조금만 더요! B: (ask for just a little)

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그럼 조금만 주세요. 정말 조금만요.

(Then just a little please. Really just a tiny bit.)

F. A: 안 마셔요? B: (explain a health reason)

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네, 건강상의 이유로 요즘 사양하고 있어요. 죄송해요.

(Yes, I've been passing lately for health reasons. I'm sorry.)

G. A: 이거 진짜 맛있는데 안 먹어요? B: (express regret about declining)

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맛있어 보이는데, 배가 너무 불러서요. 못 먹어서 아쉬워요.

(It looks delicious, but I'm too full. It's a shame I can't have it.)

H. A: 왜 안 마셔요? B: (give a brief, polite reason)

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오늘 운전이 있어서요. 다음엔 마실게요!

(I'm driving today. I'll drink next time!)

I. A: 억지로라도 한 입만요! B: (firmly but kindly decline)

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하하, 감사한데요, 정말 배가 불러요. 다음에 꼭 먹을게요.

(Haha, thank you but I'm really full. I'll definitely eat it next time.)

J. A: 음료수라도 드릴까요? B: (accept graciously)

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아, 네! 음료수는 괜찮아요. 감사해요.

(Oh, yes! A soft drink is fine. Thank you.)

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Useful Phrases

Phrase	Meaning
억지로라도	Even forcibly / even a little
못 먹어서 아쉬워요	It's a shame I can't eat it
뭐가 들어가 있어요?	What's in it?
정말 조금만요	Really just a tiny bit
요즘 사양하고 있어요	I've been passing lately
다음엔 마실게요	I'll drink next time

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Conversation Tip

When someone insists (억지로라도 한 입만요!), the warmest response is a mix of appreciation + honest reason + future promise: 감사한데요, 정말 배가 불러요. 다음엔 꼭요! This leaves no awkwardness — you've been gracious, honest, and forward-looking.

Exercise 5 — Free Speaking Practice

A. Decline a second glass of alcohol at a work dinner.

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저는 됐어요. 오늘 운전이 있어서요. 음료수 있으면 그걸로 할게요.

(I'm good. I'm driving today. If there's a soft drink I'll have that.)

B. Decline more food at a host's home warmly.

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너무 맛있어요, 근데 배가 불러요. 충분히 먹었어요. 다음엔 꼭 더 먹을게요.

(It's so delicious, but I'm full. I've had enough. I'll definitely eat more next time.)

C. Explain you can't eat something because of an allergy.

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혹시 이게 뭐가 들어가 있어요? 저 알레르기가 있어서 확인해야 해요.

(What's in this by any chance? I have an allergy so I need to check.)

D. Decline food as a vegetarian but stay positive.

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저 채식주의자라서 고기는 못 먹어요. 근데 다른 건 다 먹을게요. 맛있어 보여요!

(I'm vegetarian so I can't eat meat. But I'll have everything else. It looks delicious!)

E. Decline but ask for just a tiny portion to be polite.

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조금만 주세요. 정말 아주 조금만요. 배가 많이 불러서요.

(Just a little please. Really just a tiny bit. I'm quite full.)

F. Decline alcohol for health reasons without over-explaining.

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건강상의 이유로 사양할게요. 죄송해요. 분위기는 함께할게요!

(I'll pass for health reasons. I'm sorry. I'll enjoy the atmosphere with everyone!)

G. Express that it's a shame you can't eat something delicious.

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정말 맛있어 보이는데, 배가 불러서 못 먹겠어요. 너무 아쉬워요.

(It really looks delicious, but I'm full and can't eat it. It's such a shame.)

H. Decline when someone keeps insisting you have more.

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하하, 감사해요! 근데 정말 더 못 먹겠어요. 이미 너무 많이 먹었어요.

(Haha, thank you! But I really can't eat more. I've already eaten so much.)

I. Accept a soft drink after declining alcohol.

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술은 됐는데요, 음료수는 감사히 받겠어요.

(I'll pass on alcohol, but I'll gratefully accept a soft drink.)

J. Close a food decline exchange gracefully.

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정말 감사해요. 다음엔 꼭 먹을게요. 오늘 음식 다 너무 맛있었어요!

(Thank you so much. I'll definitely have it next time. All the food today was so delicious!)

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Sentence Starters

Starter	Use
저는 됐어요 + reason	Core decline
너무 맛있어 보여요, 근데	Compliment before declining
충분히 먹었어요	I've had enough
다음엔 꼭 먹을게요	Warm, forward close
분위기는 함께할게요	I'll enjoy the atmosphere
조금만 주세요	Partial acceptance

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Speaking Challenge

Role-play a 회식 (work dinner) in your head. You're offered alcohol three times and food twice. Use a different expression each time you decline. Can you get through five polite refusals without repeating yourself? That's real fluency.

음식과 음료, 이제 자연스럽게 사양할 수 있어요! ✨